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Create Powerful client relationships and expand their opportunities
February 21st, 2010 by Kendall
One of the biggest “A-ha!” moments my 2010 Certified Money, Marketing and Soul Coach training students had last week was finally “getting” how, in their desire to help/be of service/make a difference they were actually disempowering their clients.
Maybe you can relate to this:
- Going over — sometimes waaaaayyyy over! — on your coaching sessions
- Under charging and therefore not challenging your clients to step up and play big
- Thinking “Who am I?” to offer a new program or product
If this is ringing true for you, let me help you out here…overwhelming people, disregarding your own boundaries or undervaluing your gifts does NOT allow you to help others.
You MUST hold yourself as powerful, hold your clients as powerful, and create an energetic space (via clear boundaries) so that your clients can step up to, play big and expand their opportunities and results.
Once you experience how yummy and expansive this feels you’ll never again go back to the old, contracted way of doing things.
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What are your Stretch Goals for this year?
February 12th, 2010 by Kendall
I realize that we’re already past the season of goal setting but I can’t resist sharing a tip with you that I think you’ll value and appreciate.
Every year, I set three “stretch” goals. These are goals that I know I can reach BUT require that in some way I shift my paradigm. This is how I keep growing my soul along with my success.
My stretch goals typically include:
- How much money I want to celebrate having in the bank at the end of the year
(this helps me think bigger and quickly gets me past any fear that might come up, such as the “who am I” syndrome)- How much I want to grow my list
(this gets me to stretch out of my comfort zone, pick up the phone and create new JV opportunities)- One area of running my business that I want to master
(this motivates me to streamline and delegate, eliminating any “I’m not doing enough” thoughts that might crowd my happiness)I’d love to know what YOUR 2010 goals are! Post a comment on my blog, okay?
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Step into your Power
February 8th, 2010 by Kendall
Power isn’t a word many women feel connected to. They think of it as power OVER others, instead of what it really is, which is power WITHIN themselves.
You have the power of choice, the power of decision and the power to make a conscious choice that today is the day that you step into your power.
Afraid what others will think of you if you do? Don’t be…the people who truly love you want you to be fully in your glory.
Afraid of who you’ll be if you really step into your power? Don’t be…it’s already within you and you’re hiding out doesn’t make it not so.
My advice? Pick one specific area of your life or business in which you want to be in your power. How does someone who is already standing in her power act in that area? What does someone who is already in her power believe?
Take it from someone who knows, standing in your power is a lot less work and a lot easier than hiding out, pretending to be anything less than your amazing, magnificent self!
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The gift of receiving
January 17th, 2010 by Kendall
The ability to receive has been really up for me lately. Everywhere I turn is an example of someone receiving in a beautiful way.
One of the most touching examples I’ve witnessed so far in the new year was last week, at my Platinum Inner Circle retreat. At the end of the retreat, one of the participants stood up and shared how, when she heard about the program she made a decision right then and there to be in it.
Only thing was, she didn’t have the money. But she didn’t allow that to change her decision. Instead, she kept holding her intention with faith and power, knowing that she was going to be in this program.
Lo and behold, someone who so believes in her and the importance of her work (which is to end child abuse by focusing her counseling on young families) stepped up and sponsored her in the program. Full pay, no strings attached.
When I heard her story I burst into tears. I was so struck by the generosity of her benefactor, and the clarity of this woman’s conviction that it instantly turned me into a puddle.
What about you? What is one thing you want to do, that you are so convinced you are supposed to do, with such unshakable conviction that nothing will move you off of your belief that it will materialize for you?
Would you have been willing to accept such a generous gift from someone? If not, why not? And how is that reason limiting you in your business?
I suggest opening your heart to the passion of conviction and to the gift of receiving.
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